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I love listening to the music, any kind of music, Pop, Rock, Alternative, Folk, EDM, Dangdut, you named it! For me, music have special place in my brain (yes, brain! because my heart already fill with something else). I can go back to my house just because i miss my headphone, because it so goddamn useless having a phone without music on it!

Not only i am enjoying good tunes that produce from genius music producer like Max Martin, Shellback, Dr. Luke, Thomas Wesley Pentz, even the recent one i love Ilya Salmanzadeh (he creates "Everyday" by Ariana Grande and i can not stop push the rewind) i also very attached with their lyrics. Yes, i am that kind of person. I have to know the lyrics so i can sing along. And also, the lyrics is very important for me to learn American English and their slang (yes, i always assume all music lyric is using American English instead of British). My first experiences with song lyric when i am still in fourth grade, translate Blue ft Elton John song "Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Words". Its beautifully poetic but also catchy (also, i just found out that i am have a things with tall slender black british man, Yass, Simon Webbe is my first n*gga crush. Now i have Idris Elba). Then my next addiction is Avril Lavigne with "With You" then Coldplay with "Shiver" also Metallica with "St. Anger" all of them give me a feeling. A very mixed feeling for 12 tears old kids!

But, now, here we are. In digital era. The Millennials era. The era that everything happen prematurely. We have teen mom, teen CEO, teen doctor, every teen seems do all the grown up shits and the world seems fine about it! (Ok, Gita don't go there, stay focus!) And what is my main concern is, not only the world we living is changing, but also the music we hearing become more provocative and seductive. And, somehow i feel it is wrong, no, its not okay!



1. Craving for Attention
In terms of fashion, i always find that the world is always transform to something lesser fabric. The skirt slit getting higher, the bras that shouldn't be appear in public now becoming a cute top, the hot pants getting hotter than ever (seriously i would called it "jeans panties", because my underwear cover more ass than today's hot pants). And, why the world do it? it simply because we no longer accepting people attention, we need morerecognition that we have a good ass. We need acknowledge that our booty are great. And since we are craving so much about it, the music capture it with tunes and lyric. Iggy Azalea and JLo song "Big Booty" have very clear message about... you know... booty. And then, Nicky Minaj explicitly told you about her about her "anaconda don't want none unless you got buns hun". And yes, the anaconda is referring to the penis and buns mean, the butt. And, this Anaconda song are the anthem of 2015, you can find a kids at Youtube dancing and singing this song freely. Like it was some Disney song or anything.




2. Dying of Romantic Era
In this era of technology, on few (very few, maybe almost ancient) people that still hold on to their romantic side. Who still believe in love at the first sight, hold a boombox in front of the girl that he/she loved until they forgive you, who still have trust and keep each other promises, believe in sacrifice, you know all the stupid shit from Coldplay early album. "You know, for you i bleed my self dry", Yellow by Coldplay. No, right now everything about sex, money, or pimping. Even the cute little miss Disney, Ariana Grande, who has a voice better than the angels were singing a song about extreme sex. Like "Side to Side" which is talk about a girl that just got drill all night with the man who has huge penis and makes her walk side to side. Or Bruno Mars that give the whole procedure of foreplay in "Versace on The Floor". Even Taylor Swift trying so hard to sound seductive in her newest song "Don't Wanna Live Forever" (and yes, it sounds horrible). I mean why? Why no one make stupid promise shit like Bon Jovi "All About Loving You". Seems like John Legend, who successfully melted every single women on planet earth with "All of Me", were alone in this kind of genre.



3. Dare To Be Different...? 
Every time i hear some new artist or new singer, the media always demand that this certain singer or musician can offer something different to the industry. And i blame Lady Gaga for that! She come in 2008 with her completely new style. She refer herself as none human but a monster. She dress like no other human being ever can imagine, she has great voice and good skill to write a hits. And everyone seems want to copying her controversial image... and failed. Like Miley Cyrus. I don't said what she doing is a major failure, i love "Bangerz" album so bad, but she trying so hard to look different. With her crazy hair style, crazy outfit (or even unwanted nude) and her crazy obsession with marijuana ( i mean, why? i know people that smoking marijuana everyday but none of them looks like her).

So, i guess thats what makes music sound so hornier than ever. Do you think there is more reason for that? Please, comment below!


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From all the shit happen from the beginning of 2017, finally we got a break from all this train of stressful event. Grammy Awards 2017 kick off this Sunday night or in our timezone, Monday morning. There is a lot of amazing things happen in the Stapples Center, I don't know, is it because of James Corden doing great step in LL Cool J's job or because of there is an absent of Taylor Swift squad and drama? But this year, everything goes exceptional! And here is some of my favorite parts:


1. Beyonce Slay (as usual) 
Pregnant with twins doesn't stop her to slay Staples Center with mind blowing performance. She might be failed to bring"Lemonade" as Album of The Year (as everyone expected, Adele won those with "25", yasss). But i guess, she won the best performance this year! With amazing video mapping and holy gracious theme, i lost a words to describe it!

2. The Weeknd ft Daft Punk
I dont care about The Weeknd relationship with Selena. I dont give a shit with Bieber and other celeb try to boycott this event. Especially when they bring my favorite french duo, Guy-Manuel and Thomas Bangalter, back on their drone helmet. Arghh, Its pure joy when i saw this performance. Never thought Daft Punk and The Weeknd were impeccable together.

3. Prince Bruno From Mars
Never doubt Bruno Mars. I now he is still young but the best thing we could do is protect him from all the bad things in this world because he is going to be a legend. Perhaps bigger than Prince him self.


4. Lady Gaga ft Metallica
James Hethfield's mic wasn't working but they still fire. arrrghh. ksdfhcwndxhlaecaks dfcwstyiwuctglkyefcnsxlksdfkbclnakfrs tcfyhvjclkfryfeylnk iudylfutdjkdkfgkbdcnfkd. rwjhfvc ykursjsyksdyrsty vrsf cbnvy khv crdx,hc j ghl gnkjd skdjfhQURTQ Iwsdasndvade. Arrrrggghhh.




5. Adele Make Sure We Get The Best George Michael Experience
Learn from last year, Adele really want to make sure she do it correctly in Grammy's stage. When she was sang one of George Michaels hits 'Fastlove' with her own arrangement, but she feel uncomfortable with her voice (or maybe other technical issue), so she stop the show and ask the whole team to restart! I don't know why, but i find this kind attitude was pleasant. I mean, never settle for "only OK" (especially if you are performing in Grammy's stage), do it perfectly or nothing!  And her acceptance speech that dedicated for Beyonce are beyond words. Love you mama Adele.


6. That Baby Daddy
I love Diplo for his music. And the idea of a man that work to make people dance in the dance floor but actually a very serious baby daddy. I mean, look at these. This is perfection!
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26 years living as a women (check out my bra and pants, yup still women) its been... interesting! Not only biologically but environmentally. And 2017 was began with #WomenMarch and then so many people seems (only seems) more aware about women rights, and then Emma Watson is being Bella in beauty and the Beast valued as empowering women (i...hfff... i don't know, i better not say a word). So, i think women is actually in progressive power. And since progressive means we being progress, and it means changing, so, i would like to share some of our words that we usually tell to women that need to end this year! Here is mine:


1. "When i was your age, i was already married with two kids"
So.... should i say... congratulation? then give you an awards or something? I even don't know why people keep say these things to me. Are those things suppose to make me feel jealous or pity? I mean, is good, you were lucky when you find your loved ones in the young age (i would like to assume all the people that choose to married because they in love with their spouse. Because, i have no time to argue with in denial people that said 'love can be nurture after you married and have kids.' SHUT UP! JUST SHUT UP). But, since we already in 2017, lets not take a lifetime commitment as competition, shall we? Lets not measure people happiness by age or any time form. And, how about, we put married as personal choice of living rather than lifetime achievement. Deal?

What is really bothered me, patriarchy is not always came from men. Sometimes women can be super patriarchy with very wrong reason. (pict from +Refinery29) 
2. "Why you get higher education? You belong in the kitchen after all"
Because my friend, i love being educated. I love to know things. I love to know something scientifically (not by assumption or even worse opinion) and gather with people who had same interest with me. Do i will make something difference with my degree? Will i be minister or president with my degree? Maybe i will, maybe i wont. But one thing for sure, if someday i have a kids or got a chance to teach future generation, at least i know something deep enough. Not only from its skin but understanding something fundamentally. Because, that whats happen to today generation, they feel enough with a piece of information without knowing or understand where it stand, why its there, they are lack of empathy and always full of bullshit. So, to respond to you, yes my friend, i'll be in the kitchen. But we will have plenty things to talk about and have fruitful discussion in my kitchen. no one leave my kitchen with empty stomach or even worse empty heart and brain.



3. "Women can not lead, they are lack of stamina"
I admitted. Women bodies were not design to be always in 100% great function for 24/7 and 365 days. We get sick, tired, and emotionally unstable once a month. Our mind were not working correctly when we pregnant. But that doesn't mean we can not think logically. Our ability to pay attention in detail and analytic as good or even way more better than men. That's why we are so goddamn good in administration. We are capable of doing more than one things in one time. We are great communicator and always had warmth side. Yes, things will be different if we having women as leader. How's things work will be not the same with male leader. But it doesn't mean we can not reach the same goal. Some of us even capable to achieve more than man. Check out more about these topic from my girl Ariana Huffington. She is fire!

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4. "Women emotionally weaker than man"
Yeah! This bullshit should be end in 2017 because this is proven irrelevant anymore. My babes Angela Merkel can teach you something!
But, nonetheless, we currently living in the era of racism, violent, civil gun shot, terror attack, possibility of world war. Don't you think little empathy and slightly emotion are needed right now? The world is need women to warmth this cold cold situation. Because as far as i know, women always choose non violent and peaceful solution whatever it takes!


5. "Women look better with their smile"
Dude, so do you! We sick and tired look at that grumpy-demanding-face every day! And also, put some cologne's on, your smell disgusting!


6. "Don't too ambitious on your career honey, you will threat the man"
I got my first six month before i graduated college. Every since that, my family warn me to not ambitious with my career. To be honest, i dont. I am not the person who had always ambitious to be number one and get a lot of awards, no i am not. But, since people to warn me how bad is to have ambition, that's the only things i want to do.  When i have a job (even the one that i don't like), i want to be that be the best job i have done. I don't want to waste my time, i always feel like to productive. And i am sorry, if that threat the man, well, maybe next time dont warn a girl to stop being ambitious but support a man to as productive as he could! Instead of, tell us to stop being ambitious in our career, how about to tell your man to be more competitive. My girl Beyonce can schooled you about this!

7. "Why you so sensitive? Is it time of the month?"
Just because i said something that makes you uncomfortable (maybe i just fact checking or not laugh on your stupid jokes) doesn't mean i am being sensitive bitch. No, its not time of the month. Is very often, people (not only men) are assuming women being sensitive because women doesn't do what they expect. You were expecting women always give respond as you want. Sometimes, women act snarky because what you said its really dumb and sexist. So, instead of attacking women for being too sensitive, maybe you need to look at yourself (or maybe a session with therapist) 'am i just say something horrible?'. 'are the word that just come out of my mouth are appropriate?'. Thaaaaaat will be more helpful.

8. "Don't get offended. If they catcalling you, it means you are good looking"
Hey! You think i am cute? You think i am hot? Well, you know what, tell me personally. Don't catcalling me when you surrounded by your crew. And yes, of course i feel offended. How the hell i am not? You and your squad see women and get entertain by that, what do you think i am a stripper? (yeah, do that in strip club, at least you already pay for you 'entertainment'.) Yes, of course, women don't like being your object of public amuse. And who the hell was like it? Imagine yourself, walking peacefully, and group of women calling you hot and want to see your dicks out? Do you still think thats fun? Nothing fun with public harassment. And one more thing, this is 2017, is that your way to flirt? Don't compliment our look that's from God and we don't do anything about it. Compliment our brilliant brain and our bravery to walk every single day side by side in the world that you claimed as "Man's World" and survive.

9. "Can you wear something pretty?"
Dude, this is pretty. With or without any clothes on, this is pretty! And also, when we go out together, i am not there to be your extra decoration. No! You want to brag about me to your friends, good! Tell them all the things that make us fall in love, tell them about how crazy talented i am, how funny i am, but not how sexy i could be. No! If you want something pretty to brag about, get a diamond watch or buy an expensive car. I don't care!

10. "Wow, are your husband okay since you makes more money than him?"
Yes, we are okay! And so should you and entire society. I always believe money can come from any sources. It can come from the mom or the dad or both. And in 2017, please no more judge who make money better. Live in 2017 already expensive and hard enough without your stupid judgement. Unless you give us money every time you tell unnecessary comment about our lifestyle, you have no right to tell us what to do!
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I want to claim myself as part of social media community. I regularly use it to get information and share some of my favorite photo of the day... or cat. Any way, even if i was called millennials, the generation of social media. I still confusing with how and why people get famous from these.

I get it if they regularly share their comedic post or something that can entertain others. I also understand when i see some people getting famous just because her/his picture are extraordinary, aesthetically inspiring. But, when he/she don't do any of that things, i just confuse and feel there is something wrong about me.

So, today, there is some celebgram from Indonesia just getting married. And entire people in my office are buzzing around about her. "Is she really married with that guy? Isn't he just makes other girls pregnant? Why would she do it?".Well, my real question is, why do you care?

And also why she is famous? I know this girl is not alone, there is several type of celebgram that been famous because of her personal drama through social media. But, if that so? Are we really that nosy? You just harsh talk about someone who don't know you, and he or she doesn't do any powerful or impact to his/her society. I mean, i am sorry, but i think her existences is even doesn't need that much of attention. Since when we become so nosy about little things that doesnt have relation with our lives? Are we really turn out to be this kind of inquisitive society. (I blame the Kardashian for this such phenomenon). But, if you want to know or want to be that kind of "celebgram", here is some tips that i found after an hours looking through some Instagram pages.

1. Be in The Social Media
Choose your media. Currently, Instagram is the most favorite one. It can share your super aesthetic photo that really are different from reality (hey, its 2017, who need reality?) and also long space of caption that can add some drama to your photo. And it allow you to post 1 minute video and also you can do Instagram Live. Facebook also good choice, but maybe its too political right now. So, unless you own a media, or a journalist, or a non-journalist but always have strong opinion, Facebook is suitable for you. Twitter also fun. Currently is the most favorite place for President to rant their problem (ex: Donald Trump and SBY. *rolling eyes*)

2. Exaggerate Everything
Like i said in the point number one, nobody need to know your reality. If you want to share your personal life, make sure you exaggerate it. Make it huge and sounds like big deal. Post your post break up situation. Cry a little bit. Don't forget to use the harsh words. People love potty mouth.

3. Get Personal
Share your vacation is great, but also share your activity with your loved one. Share your daily conversation with he or she in your social media. Make sure your audiences (or followers) know what you've been up to all day. Make everything about you. Your favorite place in bed, your favorite color, your favorite food, share everything left no detail untold.

4. Get Haters
If you found one of the followers insult you or hates you, congratulation you are one step closer of being famous. Don't hate them, cherish them. You know what? Have comment war with them, it will bring people attention!

5. Finally, Enjoy Unlimited Endorsement
 Since people really drown into your drama and your followers filled with angry haters, don't get down. Its time to reach the number of followers. The more they hate you, the bigger followers will came at you. After that huge number of followers, enjoy your unlimited endorsement. And if you don't get any, maybe its time to produce or sell your own product. Who cares! You famous and rich now!
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